I woke up to the sensation of strange hands ripping the clothes off my body. Struggling to make sense of my surroundings, I quickly recalled the futility of this endeavor […]
Feelings of shame can be thought of as a byproduct of threats to social bonds. Shame serves the function of enforcing constraints on individuals regarding what is deemed socially appropriate. Shame also forces us to be pulled outside ourselves as we try to judge ourselves from an externalized perspective
Generally speaking, when people talk about grief, the first thing that comes to mind is the death of a loved one. However, grief can also non-death related issues such as: divorce, mental, or physical, illness, addiction, unemployment, or incarceration. The trouble one often runs into and dealing with non-death weighted grief is that they are not often recognized openly by society at large
As I establish this blog, it is my desire to sort through everything that comes with a late diagnosis of autism and ADHD. As I have stated before, this changes everything about everything. There are many things that now make sense. I see a series of missteps in life as symptoms of undiagnosed neurodivergency. I no longer characterize my being in the world as a negative personal failing.